Tuesday, 13 November 2012

Life is fragile

When we are young we feel as though we are immortal. As we grow we begin to experience events that make us recognise that we are fragile, that life is fragile. Although we may look back at the naivety of youth as something good, the change in understanding can bring about a deeper understanding of what is important. When we  realise life is fragile we begin to treat life as something to be treasured. We treat life as something special. We begin to treat the lives of those close to us as special.

Benedict (a monk) used to suggest that "Day by day remind yourself that you are going to die" reminding our`selves we are mortal is a positive thing. Considering our mortality helps us realise the extent to which we can or can't control life. Resulting in a true understanding of our human-ness. It reminds us that our lives are limited in length and gives an immediacy to life. 

Recognising this fragility can be negative. By focusing too much on the temporary nature of life we may begin to cling to it, through worry, through hoarding, through self preservation. We end up living in fear. But this need not be the case....

For me understanding my mortality inspires me to take joy in what I have. To love life, to enjoy each moment, not living in the past thinking about how things didn't work out or constantly looking to the future. But enjoy the here and now. It also causes me to reflect on whether how I am living will leave a positive impact on the earth for those who come after me.

Knowing that my time here is limited inspires me to find out more about God who is not limited by time, top search for him and what . and the advice that he has to give on how to live and be.

Friday, 2 November 2012

Look at your reflection

How long do you spend looking in the mirror each morning? If you are like me then maybe it isn't that lot. But if you do...and if you see a splodge of mud on your face...you clean it off! Seeing what you look like makes you change who you are.

What about a different sort of mirror? How others respond to you?

How people act around us or respond to us can be a mirror for what our personality is like. How you behave will cause a response in others. If you are a bubbly sort of person then you entering the room will probably get a cheery response.If you are an aggressive person maybe people will act a little defensive around you.

Have a look in the mirror this week. Look at your reflection in other peoples reactions.  How do people speak to you? How do they act when they see you? Does this reveal anything new about who you are? What will it cause you to change?

Spending time with God can reveal even more to us about who we are. As we stop in a quiet moment away from the distractions and ask God to speak, he can reveal to us more of who we truly are. We will see parts we need to change and the parts of us that bring God joy.